Are you sure that you are being bullied? Do you bully others? Why?

Identifying yourself as a bully or a victim of bullying is hard there are many cases around the world that mentions about teenagers who feel that they are being bullied, but, however it is the exact opposite. How can they do it? There are many answers to this specific question but one of the main reasons why is because of “jokes”. For us teenagers we usually like to insult each other with the reason to “joke” around, this has affected many teenagers to do the same thing as others, some do not. Those people are teenagers who felt hurt because of the insults that their friends gave them, this results a fight between the teenagers because they both insult each other as a means for a “joke” and the other one as a means to insult the person truly. From this argument between teenagers, we can see the relation between the teenagers are like a bully and a bullied, there is a question that I would like to ask you all who do you think is being bullied? If you guess teenager A, you guessed it right and if you guessed the second teenager you guessed it right also! So, what is the answer? The answer to my question is both, both teenagers are wrong because of the action that they take, the teenager who takes it as a joke (let us call him teen A and the other teen B) is wrong because of the lack of attention to his friend and teen B acted wrong because he continued what teen A started which results a never-ending argument between the teenagers. What was the right decision to do? Well, the right decision is first for teen B to tell teen A that he did not like to be insulted and asked him if he stop doing that to him and for teen A to ask teen B if he is alright with teen A doing that to him. This can easily solve both of their problems easily and cause no further trouble.